Friday, 21 December 2007

FRIDAY 55FLASH FICTION, Famous women

How sweet my baby looks, every mother is blessed when given this precious gift.
For this moment in time let it be just us three.
Soon my darling, there will be such a fuss.
So snuggle up, lay peaceful in my arms son.
For in the future the world will wish to rest in yours...



Well of course this weeks famous lady had to be Mary. My problem was that there are so many varied accounts of her life, and stories that tell so many different tales. Firstly I thought, most people will have their belief and version of her life. Secondly, I wish to offend no one, so I have cut and pasted a definition from the Columbia Encyclopedia, but before I print that, I want to share with you the thoughts that entered my head, brought a tear to my eye and an appreciative expression to my face, whilst I was researching for the material on Mary.
In all this hustle and bustle for the preparation for Christmas, it made me pause and stop to think about the miracle of birth, and the love of a mother. The struggles and fears she has for her children, our heartbreak when life, with its twists and turns is unkind. The strength needed to continue without them, should they be cruelly taken away from us. So to all the MOTHERS out there, remember you are unique and special, take time for yourselves over Christmas to remember that.


Mary, in the Bible, mother of Jesus. Christian tradition reckons her the principal saint, naming her variously the Blessed Virgin Mary, Our Lady, and Mother of God. Her name is the Hebrew Miriam.

The events of her life mentioned in the New Testament include her betrothal and marriage to Joseph; the archangel Gabriel's annunciation to her of Jesus' birth; her visitation to her cousin Elizabeth, mother of John the Baptist; Jesus' nativity; her purification at the Temple; her station at the Cross, where Jesus instructed that she and his disciple John should consider themselves related as mother and son; her visit to Christ's tomb after his resurrection; and her attendance in the room with the Twelve Apostles at Pentecost.
Although few other details of her life are mentioned or implied in the Bible, tradition has it that she was the daughter of St. Joachim and St. Anne, announced miraculously to them; that she was presented and dedicated at the Temple as a virgin; and that she was “assumed” directly into heaven, a doctrine that did not appear until the 5th century. In 1950, Pope Pius XII's bull Munificentissimus Deus made Mary's bodily assumption into heaven an article of faith.

Virginity and Immaculate Conception
Since the early church the theme of Mary's virginity has served as an important emblem of Christianity's ascetic ideal. The Orthodox, Roman Catholic, and some Protestant traditions teach the perpetual virginity of Mary, placing a nonliteral interpretation on New Testament references to Jesus' “brothers.” The Roman Catholic Church additionally has proclaimed the dogma of the Immaculate Conception (declared in the bull Ineffabilis Deus of Pius IX, 1854), according to which Mary was conceived without original sin. The Roman Catholic Church further teaches that Mary was freed from actual sin by a special grace of God.

Intercession and Veneration
From earliest times Mary's intercession was believed to be especially efficacious on behalf of humankind and the church; since the Middle Ages, recitation of the rosary has been among the most popular expressions of Marian devotion. The Roman Catholic Church teaches that Mary is the mediatrix of all graces. The body of doctrine about Mary is called Mario;ogy; Mariolatry is an opprobrious term used since the Reformation to mean the worship of Mary—a criticism leveled by many Protestants at the cult of Mary within the Roman Catholic Church. Catholics maintain that the veneration (hyperdulia) accorded Mary, while higher than that accorded any other creature, is infinitely lower than the worship reserved for Jesus. The principal feasts honoring Mary are those of the Assumption (Aug. 15), the Birthday of Our Lady (Sept. 8), the Immaculate Conception (Dec. 8), the Purification (Feb 2nd Candlemas), and the Annunciation or Lady Day (Mar. 25).

Apparitions of the Virgin have been reported since ancient times, and some have led to new cultuses and shrines, typically associated with cures. These apparitions include those at Guadalupe Hidalgo, Mexico, in 1531, associated with a miraculous painting (Our Lady of Guadalupe); at Paris (Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal) in 1830; at Lourdes, France, in 1858; and at Fatima, Portugal, in 1917. The most well-known apparitions since then have been those at Medjugorje, Bosnia; since they began in the early 1980s they have attracted many pilgrims but have not been officially recognized by the Roman Catholic Church. Two great pilgrim shrines of medieval England were Our Lady of Glastonbury and Our Lady of Walsingham (Norfolk). Our Lady of Częstochowa has been a rallying point of Polish nationalism.

Patroness and Artistic Subject
Mary in her aspect of the Immaculate Conception is the patroness of the United States, and Our Lady of Guadalupe was declared Empress of all the Americas by Pope Pius X. With Lumen Gentium (1964), Pope Paul VI proclaimed Mary as Mother of the Church. In the 1980s, while it was still a part of the USSR, Pope John Paul II dedicated Russia to her. Artistic representations of Mary are innumerable; for differing aspects, see Christian iconography under iconography. She has been the subject of countless works from the time of the pseudepigrapha.

Wednesday, 19 December 2007

TWENTY SIX YEARS!!!!

4.00pm Saturday 19th December 1981


All this time! And would we do it ALL again?
No, not again.
Innocence and ignorance helped us through the bad times...
Of course, there were the good times too - wonderful times -and we'll remember them forever.
But this is, in some ways, the best time - and made better by looking back at the journey we have come.
We made it. Together.


We have made a home, gathered possessions, kept treasured
souvenirs of all the joys we've shared.
All dear to me - yet if all were lost tomorrow and we were safe in each other's love - I'd mourn them only for a moment.
All that is most precious can be held in a stretch of my arms.


One of my favourite Elizabethan poets, Sir Philip Sidney (1554-1586)

The Bargain

My true-love hath my heart and I have his,
By just exchange one for the other given:
I hold his dear, and mine he cannot miss;
There never was a bargain better driven.
His heart in me keeps me and him in one;
My heart in him his thoughts and senses guides:
He loves my heart, for once it was his own;
I cherish his because in me it bides.
His heart his wound received from my sight;
My heart was wounded with his wounded heart;
For as from me on him his hurt did light,
So still, methought, in me his hurt did smart:
Both equal hurt, in this change sought our bliss,
My true love hath my heart and I have his.


Where did all the years go?
I can't believe that I was doing this 26 years ago, obviously a child bride !!!
"Happy Anniversary Darling " xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx